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Please visit often and feel free to light a candle or write a memory of Matthew. We cherish every word and we hope that he will never be forgotten.

Matthew if love could have saved you 
you would have lived forever


Matthew you are loved and missed every single day. Come to us in our dreams.

This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved son , Matthew Mendez who was born in California on February 16, 1983 and passed away on March 31, 2002 at the age of 19. He will live in our hearts forever.
He could make you laugh, laugh until you cried. He gave the biggest hugs. His hugs lifted your feet off the floor and you could feel all his love wrapped around you. He was a loving gentle soul with the biggest heart. He was beautiful inside and out.
He was a wonderful son, a great big brother to Amy and Jason and a devoted friend to many including: Eric Patao, David Dirkmatt, Andre Hinaut, Darryl Grace and the gang in the court.
His special love thru his high school years and beyond was Gabby Gonzales. They were a beautiful couple. We are so blessed and grateful Matthew brought her into our lives and she will always be apart of our family.
His love for family was genuine, faithful, and passionate.
Matthew loved sports (Dallas Cowboys) and played football for Silver Creek High School and Gavillan College.
Matthew worked at Baskin Robbins during his high school years. He was working for Quest Discovery Services (when he passed) with a group of people he simply loved. By the out pour of condolences we could tell the feelings were mutual. We  treasure  all the wonderful memories of Matthew. He brought so much joy and so much love to our family. We are all so blessed to have known and loved  him.

The love we hold  in our hearts is forever.


A Borrowed Angel
His smile is there to brighten us 
When our days are cold and bleak
His hugs are there to warm us 
When love is what we seek
The Lord had other plans for him
He needed him as well
His memories are forever with us
For all to share and tell
Now he smiles from up above
And showers all the world
with his eternal love

written by
Gabriella Celeste Gonzales


I Carry Your Heart With Me
I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)I am never without it (anywhere I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling. I fear no fate  ( for you are my fate, my sweet) I want no world ( for beautiful you are my world, my true) and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you.  here is the deepest secret nobody knows here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart. I carry your heart ( I caryy it in my heart)

By E.E. Cummings

For Our Beloved Matthew
When tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand
The angel said my place was ready in Heaven far above
And that I'd  Have to leave behind
all those I dearly loved
But when I walked through Heaven's gates
I felt so much at home
for God looked down and smiled at me
and said "Welcome Home"
So when tomorrow starts without me
Don't think we're far apart
For every time you think of me
I'm right here in your heart.


Tributes and Condolences
Remembering Matthew   / Kris Flores (friend)
To the Mendez Family,

Seems like yesterday i was riding my bike through
the street of Everdale Drive where I noticed this
tall, skinny, giant with big red glasses. Could it
really be Clark Kent, as this person wore a Sup...  Continue >>
And....We Still Miss You!!!   / Brandon Stewart (brother/friend)
The pain just never seems to go away, your family and friends struggle to get through without you each day.  Six long years come and go, but our love for you, grows and grows.  It's hard to grasp you not being here, bro. I have these...  Continue >>
Touched my heart....   / Dolores Marquez ((Amanda's Mom) )
Somehow I ended up on your site tonight :-) I wanted to learn more about Jason's amazing brother.  During this time I send my heartfelt grattitude to your family. Renee, I admire your strength. You are a amazing women!! Continue to h...  Continue >>
For your angel date dear Matthew   / Jo-Ann Pacenta Mom Of Angel Lauren (Angelfamilies)
Big Matt   / Trevor Brodie (Friend More Like Lil Brother )
As I walk on earth after the 2002 incident, I miss alot of people that has moved on and seen the light. The one that pops up in my head the most is you Matt. I think about you everyday and can't go one day without not. You have left alot and alo...  Continue >>
HAPPY BIRTHDAY  / BRIDGET DTR OF ALLAN R. PEACOCK (UNITED BY ANGELS )    Read >>
The Broken Chain.....  / Ysidro Mendez (DAD)    Read >>
Happy Birthday Matthew!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )    Read >>
Never Forgotten  / Bobby Woblesky (Friend)    Read >>
God's Gift  / Brandon Stewart (Brother)    Read >>
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY  / Debbie Wengert Kevin's Mom     Read >>
Interview With Matt  / Trevor Brodie (Close Friend )    Read >>
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY  / BETH DICKERSON (JIMMY'S MOM )    Read >>
EASTER BLESSING  / BETH DICKERSON (JIMMYS MOM )    Read >>
An Easter wish  / Rosemary Sis Of ^j^ Alvin Cremeans     Read >>
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